Whom To Help?

"Don't help others without their permission. Sometimes we want to fix things that they don't consider to be broken."

                                             - PAULO COELHO 

This is so true.

We actually focus less on ourselves and are more worried about our relatives, friends and neighbours.

We keep judging them that they could have done this better, they could have bought that thing for less amount, how sad that her husband doesn't appreciate her, how bad that he lives alone, and so on.

Come on. Let's get out of these.

Let's focus on ourselves and fix things in our lives.

When you go to help somebody when they don't need it, you end up getting upset or may even get into a fight.

They may not like us intruding in their private life.

Even with your children, do not interfere too much into their lives. Let them explore. Let them get hurt a bit. They will learn and grow.

When you try to give free advice, no one wants to listen to it. So, it's better to help only when asked.

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